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Choose Your Own ‘Normal’

So what’s on your menu? Do you even have a menu? The menu contains ‘normal’ stuff – which is majority thinking, a thinking everyone agrees with.

The word ‘normal’ means ~ ‘The usual, average, or typical state or condition’ or conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected way.

You may have a menu that limits your income, time and habits…In order to change this we must move beyond our comfort zone.

Choose your current menu and throw it away, create your own thing, walk your own path.  Just getting on the path gives you the pleasure and the joy.

We allow tiny little obstacles that stop us, like lack of money, time….if you believe you are bigger than your problem then disagree that you have a lack mentality, the norm ‘agree’ – do you see how you have to go against the norm? It will feel strange though this will excel you to show up without a menu of normality. The things that make us feel alive the most are generally not on the menu.


I am selecting a result in my life that is definitely not on the menu

I selecting a result in my life that is not on the menu

My power to be free comes from my power to disagree

Choose Your Own ‘Normal’ or Don’t Do It At All !! 🙂



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Below is a template to create your mission statement and help you find your why.

The purpose of finding YOUR WHY is to create a passionate, direct reason for you to accomplish what ever you are looking to achieve in your life.

You may have a lot a different “whys” and your direction may change.

If your mission is to create wealth to take care of your family, what is your “Why”? Your “Why” is your family.

In order to create a mission statement that is on purpose and true to your desires, your reason for accomplishing your mission must be bigger than you.

Make no mistake you will stumble and may even fall, but knowing your “why” will give you the strength to get up, stand tall,and continue on your journey.

You have already made changes in your life that will last forever; today you will insert the final piece- YOUR MISSION STATEMENT.

By knowing and standing by your mission statement, you control your results.  Hold fast to your dreams and stay the course.

To achieve the results you desire it is not necessary you enjoy the process.  It is only important that you continue the process with your eyes on the outcome.  An athlete does not enjoy the pain of training; and athlete enjoys the results of having trained.

You must focus on the results.  Create your results now, create your future today!

Remember, average people compare themselves to other people.

That is why they are average.  You only need to compare yourself to your potential!  You are not average.  Any adversity is only preparation for greatness.


“Success or failure as a human being is not a matter of luck, circumstances, fate, or any of the other tiresome old clichés.

Those are only excuses. The power to achieve the life of your dreams is in your hands–and the first step toward activating it is identifying the specific goals that will make your dreams real.

After all, it’s much easier to get what you want out of life when you know where you’re going.” –

Below is a template to help you create YOUR mission statement. You may have multiple mission statements,

1 for business, 1 for personal, 1 for physical, or any other area in your life you feel a purpose for change.

Process of building your mission statement:

List 5 positive characteristics that define you and an action to describe each.

  • 1._________________________________________________________________
  • 2._________________________________________________________________
  • 3._________________________________________________________________
  • 4._________________________________________________________________
  • 5._________________________________________________________________

    Enter 5 personal and/or professional goals and 1 financial goal you would like to accomplish by one year from today.






    Financial goal


    Click here to complete your  mission statement 

You’ve made it happen!

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